Deprogramming Double Binds and Vows

by Jo Getzinger, Vice-President, C.A.R.E., Inc.

There seems to be a major emphasis among our Christian colleagues lately that, if the original traumatic memories between the point of conception and young ages (somewhere around 3 or 4 years old) are recovered and the lies resolved, then all of the rest of the programming built on top of this will come down (or something to that effect). While we agree that these are critically important memories to resolve, we respectfully disagree that the rest will fall. Something happens to the body around age 13 called puberty that presents a major hurdle for the ritual abuse survivor. Once the body reaches child-bearing age, new double-binds are used by the cult to control their victims - the most powerful double-bind that exists: the love of a parent for a biological child.

What do we mean by the word "double-bind" as it pertains to how the cult uses them? The cult usually starts the double bind training at a young age by making the child choose between the lesser of two evil choices, i.e. the child must choose which sibling will live and which will die. If the child resists choosing, the cult demonstrates to the child that resisting is the worst choice, causing much more suffering and guilt as they torture both victims and possibly kill both siblings. Then the child is blamed for making both suffer and killing both when they are told that one could have been saved by the child’s cooperation. By the time the child is forced to conceive and bear a child for the cult, the child has learned to cooperate with death-pacts and double-bind agreements and readily enters into such agreements to save as many biological children from death as possible.

In the high-positioned, national and international Illuminati families, the plan is to hide the true family from the conscious mind (Christian host). This true family is often distributed to other cult families to raise (frequently to aunts, uncles and grandparents). There are usually many children who are all fathered by different men. Through the years these biological children, being raised in other families are purposely reunited in cult ceremonies with the parent through the darkside host of the personality system in both the parent and the child to ensure that bonding occurs. Why would the cult purposely allow bonding between parent and child? The cult orchestrates the bonding in order for the darkside host to enter into death agreements/ covenants/pacts with satan. They promise satan they will continue to do their "New World Order" jobs as long as the lives of these biological children are spared. We have found this to be the single most important factor in continued motivation to serve the cult and keep programming in place. A clue that your survivor has possibly been switched at birth are statements about never being able to bond with a parent or parents.

In the last deprogramming update, we wrote about how important it is for the Christian host to renounce vows. These vows are usually unconscious and the host must ask God to reveal what these are as they pertain to known and unknown biological children. If the Christian host has biological children she has been allowed to raise, check for a vow she might have made not to remember the children who were hidden by the cult. Often the death pact made by the Christian host is an agreement not to remember her "hidden" children so that she will be allowed to continue to raise and bond with some children. If she breaks her vows, the cult threatens to kill the children she has raised. It will take strong faith on the part of the Christian host to take this step to break these vows and strong prior discipleship to prepare her for these important steps of breaking vows. The more the Christian host breaks death vows, seals, covenants, pacts and agreements with satan for the safety of her children and hands them over to the Lord Jesus Christ for their safety, the more pressure will be applied to the darkside host to try to stop the Christian host. If the Christian host holds on to her faith, the darkside host will see the power and victory of Christ over satan and will eventually surrender her vows and agreements at every level. When this occurs the "split will" comes into unity and the "double mindedness" cautioned against in the Bible will essentially come to an end.

The more the Christian host breaks death vows, seals, covenants, pacts and agreements with satan for the safety of her children and hands them over to the Lord Jesus Christ for their safety, the more pressure will be applied to the darkside host to try to stop the Christian host. If the Christian host holds on to her faith, the darkside host will see the power and victory of Christ over satan and will eventually surrender her vows and agreements at every level. When this occurs the "split will" comes into unity and the "double mindedness" cautioned against in the Bible will essentially come to an end.

The darkside host is the same biological age as the body (beware of false birth certificates in order to keep the actual age hidden). The darkside/light-side division represents the very first amnesic split usually occurring at the point of the first trauma introduced in the womb. The spirit of division, named "Janus," a Roman god, will keep the two hosts divided until all need for the dividing walls are removed. The division has served a purpose for both dark and light hosts as the darkside doesn’t experience feelings and the light doesn’t have to deal with the horrible memories and truths of her life. Never try to take something away that acts as a defense unless you replace it with something equal or better. Our "better" solution to both hosts is to invite Jesus Christ, who will never overwhelm the other side with either feelings or information, to stand between both hosts . He will act as a filter for both sides until they can assimilate the information and feelings. This solution is better because Jesus will provide truth and comfort and answers for every fear and double-bind. In Ephesians 2:14-18 Paul states "For He Himself is our peace, who has made the two one and has destroyed the barrier, the dividing wall of hostility, by abolishing in His flesh the law with its commandments and regulations. His purpose was to create in Himself one new man out of the two thus making peace, and in this one body to reconcile both of them to God through the Cross, by which He put to death their hostility. For through Him we both have access to the Father by one Spirit." A good sign to know when the darkside has really begun to trust Jesus and renounce all vows will be evidenced by the Christian host reporting some co-presence with the darkside host.

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